How a Judgmental Spirit Wounds Your Marriage

Joel Weldon, a motivational speaker, was giving his talk “Jet Pilots Don’t Have Rearview Mirrors.” He was sporting an Arizona tan, but his accent gave him away. He was a New Yorker.It was 1984, and I was in Maui, Hawaii at the annual sales awards for the public company where I ran one of the divisions. Surrounding me were top performers from all over th…